What Does it Mean to Love Yourself…

Love Matters

One usually begins to question life when we feel less than happy and well, something within nudges us to search for how we can feel better, happier and richer. So we begin our search out there, as we are convinced that all answers lie in the hands of experts, leaders and gurus. We search from one book or method to another… sometimes finding temporary happiness or remission, but actually we continue to float aimlessly through life, being bumped by circumstances to the next bump!

I put this down to society telling us since birth, what is best for us and how to live our life by experts… religious and spiritual leaders, teachers, doctors, politicians, police, etc. They have lead us to believe we have no common sense and are not competent to take responsibility for ourself. They have generalised and centralised everything, fitting everyone into a box or label. The latter, if we act a little outside the norm! We have also been pushed to get a partner who will love and complete us.

However, we can’t point the finger and blame society because it takes two to tango! It is our gullibility, nodding our head to everything told, and even our laziness that has made ourself appear powerless, unimportant and irresponsible.

We feel our inner nudges, but we ignore them! We hear the person telling us we are special, valuable and important, but we don’t believe them. We want to continue to have everything told and given to us on a plate. AND eventually life runs us down.

The answers to our all our problems are found within ourself! Eventually we have to follow our inner nudges and focus within. We have to give ourself time and attention, to listen and observe our thoughts, feelings and behaviours. We have to get to know ourselves thoroughly, like no other!

This is what I call loving yourself! To simply give yourself time and patience to be aware of everything you are.

Loving yourself Ensures you Live a Great Life!

With persistence I promise you, you will become aware that you are more than your Body and Mind, and become aware of a loving presence, or Spirit or Consciousness. It is a moment you realise you are both Human and Divine, and most magnificent and Powerful.

You will realise the importance of prioritising yourself. Showing up for yourself first and foremost. You will get to know your desires, boundaries, value and passion, and be responsible for making sure you feel well and happy. You become your own authority. Becoming your own best friend, spirit guide and doctor.

You become courageous and brave, and dare stand up and let others know you choose freedom and love, you choose for yourself.

You embrace all your emotions, fears, joys, pains. You are the parent to a child, you allow love, the love you are to transmute everything that no longer serves you.

Your mind gradually becomes quiet and your body releases all pain. But until then, you love yourself immensely and unconditionally and you know exactly what to do and when to do everything in each moment. You make it your days purpose to truly live as the DivineHuman Being you truly are. You live in joy and celebrate life in every moment.

Your love and light radiates out in the world and makes a difference! This is how you care and help others and how you change the world… by being the change yourself!

I pulled up this old post this morning… Is your life all about YOU? It is a good read where I share my own realising it was time to love myself like no other.


The world needs all the love and light it can now, so it’s important to shine your light and be the change that changes the world.  Energies continue to be intense, so keep yourself rested, hydrated and anchored well in your sacred space.

Truth Matters

Today we are celebrating another grand universal phenomenon, as in the Total Solar Eclipse, a time where the sun is blocked for a short while. Everything alive lives through cycles, it’s how change flows and evolution occurs. Everything in nature influences each other, consciousness using energy to grow, via light, love, charge, electromagnetics etc… etc… so it is always good to be aware of what is happening around and within us!

Everyone has been talking about the eclipse, whether the fear mongering from the main stream news, or even the full focus from the alternative news. But rather than get sucked into an outside event that is going to change your life, I feel its far safer to focus on yourself, your Sovereign presence and stay aware of the change you choose to make in each moment.

Remember you are incredibly powerful, so regarding this latest solar eclipse today let it be a final commitment to step away from the old ways of focusing out there, on fear and lack and dedicate your time to yourself. To focus within, where your truth is revealed to you when you persist and trust yourself like no other.

It is always good to keep in mind everyone and every journey is unique, we all walk at different paces and levels according to our individual lessens and mission. We can cheer each other along and gather for a party, but it best to always discern incoming information and only take on board what feels right and good for you.

Since my discovering the writings of Miles, I discovered the world out there isn’t so bad as it is made out to be. A lot of it on either side (door no 1 and door no 2) is purposely creating chaos and confusion in manufactured events, more so than not pretending to do the evil and horrific things to put the fear of god in us all so we obey and do as we are told!

Now IAM not saying they don’t kill us because the latest vaccine genocide is huge. But it is our gullibility that causes most of the deaths because we belief their truth, and then there’s the killing we do to each other because we have been divided and taught to fear one another.

If you’re interested in understanding a bit more about how the the bloodline families (the Phoenicians) who rule our roost, have influenced us through staging our history, religion, science, art… etc… since the beginning, to gain their position, power and money, you can read the following links from Miles. Remember always discern information and please keep in mind, Miles is self-full, because he needs to be… all news channels have completely hidden his work for nearly 2 decades so he has to promote himself.

Links to Miles Website

The Nuclear Lie is fundamentally important to know, the science paper below is understandable and interesting to read as well as the report on the fake nuclear tests.

Climate Change, what is really influencing Earth! http://milesmathis.com/ice.html

Influential Famous People who have influenced Humanity. Take for instance, Shakespeare. He was an actor who was a front for a writing committee. People from the top families were pen-picked for this project back in the 15oo’s to confuse and steer history their way.

Miles concludes this writing with…

Not much has changed in the past 400 years as you think. The Shakespeare writing committee was doing pretty much the same thing the Hollywood and TV writing committees are doing now: turning your little mind into mush. These plays aren’t boldly irrational by accident, any more than new scripts are boldly irrational by accident. They can’t have you expecting plots or character actions to make sense, because if they did, you might expect life to make sense. If life made any sense, you might figure out how to take part in it in a sensible way, and they can’t have that. They want you so confused you cannot possibly respond to any of their projects, other than go along with them. For the most part, they want you non-functioning as an active member of the world. They prefer that you are just conscious enough to get up in the morning and go to work, but not conscious enough to question anything you are told during your day. To achieve that, all your entertainment is purposely confusing, chaotic, and illogical. Likewise, all your education—whether it is provided by teachers or by media— is also utterly uncentering and confounding. The history you are taught is false and senseless, and current events are manufactured to produce fear and imbalance. It is a miracle any of us can function at all.

And why is this done? Profit. You are more profitable to the masters as a confused beast of burden than as a intelligent being. If you weren’t hoaxed and drugged into a permanent stupor, you might demand a real life and a fair share of the fruits of existence. And if you did that, the billionaires would be forced to drain their offshore accounts and gilded bunkers and airplane hangers and marble swimming palaces and so on. They need those things, you know, because without them they are nothing. They define themselves by gigantic useless objects, and by their ability to lie without consequence, and by their knack for squashing their fellow creatures.

For the rest, IAM in the UK staying with mum for a while, loving all the rain😩, catching up on a lot of reading, cooking, window cleaning, learning Spanish and generally enjoying the life and nature here. Take care of yourselves and until soon again! Life sure is wizzing by fast! Enjoy and Breathe❤️

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Writing to Freedomreply
April 8, 2024 at 16:13

Thanks for the wise and loving reminders Barbara. Enjoy your time with mum!

Barbara Frankenreply
April 11, 2024 at 13:59
– In reply to: Writing to Freedom

Thankyou Brad for popping by with beautiful words and wishes. IAM so grateful for this time with her, she is determined to receive a miracle of wellness and be an example of gods power! In the meantime she does her best not to get fed up with not being able to do much other than sleep and watch tv! Sending love to you Brad and many thanks❤️

Writing to Freedomreply
April 11, 2024 at 15:51
– In reply to: Barbara Franken

How wonderful that you can share this time with her and offer your love and support. May it unfold for highest good. 💖

April 8, 2024 at 18:19

We all have an inner compass and when we shed the layers of bull that humanity has fed us and do this inner shedding the light shines through. The light is not suppressed and what a wonderful feeling it is to wallow in love and peace. This is truly for me an aspect to happiness. Go light up that room Barbara!

Barbara Frankenreply
April 8, 2024 at 18:31
– In reply to: thespiritkeeper

Thanks Joseph for your wise and loving words❤️ they always add to my musings. I’m shining here, as I know you are in that room. I’ll be along again soon to comment on your recent musings… always good for thought🙏 sending love to you🥰

April 9, 2024 at 03:25

Love your posts Barbara, always full of wisdom, light and thought provoking truths. Yes to that inner knowing and following those instincts, to reclaiming that which we know is true and living our best life with purpose and joy. You are such a wonderful example of that. Keep shining dear friend. And enjoy your time with mum, despite the rain. We’ve had some fairly dull weather here too lately and lots of rain but life is still beautiful. Sending love and warm hugs ❤️🙏 xx

Barbara Frankenreply
April 11, 2024 at 13:54
– In reply to: Miriam

Thankyou Miriam for your kind words and resonations, here’s to our making the most and more some… everyday of our life’s! Shining brighter and brighter, changing at every opportunity so that all we see reflected is complete joy and peace to dance in. Love to you and enjoy your foreign travel… or did I understand you’re heading home?

April 11, 2024 at 16:31
– In reply to: Barbara Franken

No, we’re not home yet Barbara. Just under two weeks left here. And yes, making the most of every day. Big hugs!

Mark Lanesburyreply
April 9, 2024 at 05:07

We will reach ourselves Barbara, each and every step is gaining that wisdom so that we do finally understand us and the love within us. Finally becoming whole in what we are. It is a very dualistic path but it is in that we will be guided home and find that love and happiness we ever seek kind lady. Much love and light for your journey my friend, and the love it is building within 🤗🥰😀❤️🙏

Barbara Frankenreply
April 11, 2024 at 13:51
– In reply to: Mark Lanesbury

It’s like our depth of wisdom and love expands the more we travel on this journey, moving out of the life others would like us to play in, into our own territory of delightful new experience. Here’s to our journey and being here for one another! Thankyou so much Mark for being delightful you❤️🕺 sending love x

Mark Lanesburyreply
April 11, 2024 at 23:36
– In reply to: Barbara Franken

And returned in kind Barbara. May it ever guide us truly 😀❤️🙏

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