To Care & Love Yourself is the Greatest Gift You Can Give Yourself…

To feel FREE has always been important for me growing up. To feel I can express myself with others, how I feel, what I know and how I choose to live my life. I knew deep down this would make a difference to my happiness and wellness! Of course always considering the good of all.

BUT then life happens and you tend to follow the laws of society, ‘This is the best thing to do, you should do this, take care of this, you’re not the centre of the world, life is not all about YOU!’

So you focus out there, take care that everyone feels good and sacrifice and suffer yourself! AND you wonder why you feel drained, tired and miserable, wondering where you went wrong!

Thankfully in my early 30’s, 2 great men in my life, my late husband Tom and Peter my Teacher helped me realise that to take care of and love myself, was the No 1 basic necessity and greatest gift you can give yourself to live a happy, well and abundant life!

Over a 5 year period journeying within myself, I began to refocus, reclaim and reprogramme myself. It was indeed a Journey of Freedom, which allowed me to be me and feel happy and well in my own right!

I have never looked back from this time of dedication, in fact this new focus and way of living, or should I say loving, allowed me to open up to more and more potential and celebration. In 2014 I was inspired to write about and publish this quite sacred and magical journey to freedom.

My book #YourMagnificentSelfAJourneyToFreedom shares the changes I made that allowed me to fall deeper and deeper in love with myself… that revealed many life secrets along the way, and continues to help me understand the magic of life and the potential that is ready to come in and serve each of us.

I know you’ll love my story. It will inspire you to do whatever it is you need to do to feel free, to feel loved, to feel well and to live life as a celebration in every moment.

As a practical follow up to my book, I created a #MasterCreatorClass. It is a guided Journey to Freedom, that supports you to fully refocus, reclaim and reprogramme yourself anew and prepares you for your next role and mission as Sovereign Master and Creator who births NewEarth from within… a world of unity, harmony and community.

All money raised from my books and classes go to my charity Magnifica Conciencia who gives free Creative Art Projects to our local children on the Costa Del Sol!🙏

A Free E-Book to Download… What is Compassion?

I wanted to share again our free e-book… What is Compassion, to inspire you to love yourself like no other! It is a gift to YOU from myself and my Divine brothers and sisters who wrote these short stories about our feelings on Compassion. Unique truths we realised on our Awakening journey that enable us to live a great life of love, joy and peace. Enjoy❤️

Click the picture to download this Free E-Book❤️

The following short story is from our friend Kirsty Green who sadly transited this life after a short illness in 2019. Her words are her gift for us today❤️🙏

Compassion for me is when I feel an absolute outflowing of love and empathy towards another, coupled with this I feel the will to do good or support that person with unconditional love.

I feel as though the soul drops in and great warmth and magnetising happens for me. The soul is in charge, there are no thoughts of selfishness. I am in complete surrender and a nameless state.

I feel no fear, have no agenda, I am in complete care of another, person, creature, or event. Engulfed by the divine a true volition occurs and moves me to create states of harmony and peace.

Compassion is a deep state of love, it heals people, animals and all things. You are truly blessed in this state.

© Kirsty E Green

©Barbara Franken… Creative Visionary & Master Creator
Inspiring New Energy Consciousness & Multi-Dimensional Living

A True Magical Children’s Story about Love and Life. Inspiring our children to connect deeply with themselves and the natural world around them. For them to remember the truth of their being ‘Sparkles of Love’. Here to bring love and harmony into the world, by being them self and enjoying their life in each moment. 
Click here to read more information & link to purchase.

Your Magnificent Self... A Journey to Freedom By Barbara Franken

A paperback and Digital Book is available from all Major online stores… Amazon and Apple

I share my own magical journey. Exploring Who I AM with the help of nine Elemental Beings. Expanding from a world of fear, struggle and limitation into a New Energy Consciousness of love, grace and freedom. 

It is in this loving space, I discover my Divine and ALL LOVING self. Allowing myself to integrate together as one Body Consciousness… a DivineHumanBeing… and Magnificent Master Creator who expresses and creates heart and soul passion on the physical plane and beyond.. 

MasterCreator Class Module

Join my MasterCreator Class and commit yourself to be the change and birth yourself and your life a new! Celebrating being Your Magnificent Self through dance, song, art, relaxed inner journeys beyond everything known.

There is no time like the present moment to Sign Up and give YOURSELF this magnificent gift… More Info: MasterCreator Class

All the money raised from my books and classes go to my non-profit association.  The Magnificent Consciousness that holds free local Creative Art projects in Benalmadena, Spain.


Join the discussion and tell us your opinion.

October 29, 2022 at 18:22

Your journey is similar to mine yet somewhat different.We are all a fingerprint of humanity in the universe.
You are right about loving yourself first. If you love yourself first thenvl you will able to help others. You don’t want people to drink from an empty vessel.
Beautiful words from Kirsty Green. Totally can resonate with the words laced together by her.
Havent watched Miles video yet as I am dealing with an imminent death in the family. Wishing you a peaceful weekend and a joyful week. 💝💝💝

Barbara Frankenreply
November 1, 2022 at 15:34
– In reply to: thespiritkeeper

Yes Joseph, unique fingerprints of consciousness, making sense of reality how we each uniquely sense it. Nothing right nor wrong, just different, all honouring ourself, our life and each other. At the beginning of my Awakening journey I heard of so many teachers, healers, writers burning out! I really wondered what was happening. But upon closer observation I saw how they were only serving others, sacrificing themselves, which I understood quite clearly wasn’t the way to go! Or should I said that was the way to an early grave! Yes Kirsty’s words really resonate more with me also today… so far I’ve brought myself💃😁, to that deep place of compassion. I do hope you are dealing with your sadness in the family, IAM sure you will be a shining light of hope to everyone concerned as you truly understand how death is actually an important part of our life that we can celebrate. Joseph, sending you love and peace to enjoy this quite exciting time upon us! Do you feel the joy in the air too? Quite strange when all we hear is doom and gloom coming! Barbara x

October 29, 2022 at 18:49

Yes, we are commanded to love others AS WE LOVE OURSELVES. We can’t give away what we don’t have. In my faith journey, I love ❤️ because He first loved me. He fills my cup to overflowing.

Barbara Frankenreply
November 1, 2022 at 15:35
– In reply to: JanBeek

Lovely to feel your presence here Jan and hear your wise words of love! Yes God is love and so are we all to love and care for ourselves and each other. Your cup is definitely overflowing too and you share it with us all when we need it. So grateful for our friendship on this journey of realisation.

November 1, 2022 at 16:33
– In reply to: Barbara Franken

Bless you, Barbara. Have a Terrific Tuesday! ❤️👍🏽

Mark Lanesburyreply
October 29, 2022 at 22:28

We only ever give of what we are Barbara. Some want to give us a ride on a rocket ship…but never flown one. Life will give us that experience of love, empathy and compassion so that we can love ourselves and then give out that love we have found. We get a bit zoom, zoom and want everything today…but love…it is in those day to day chats, adventures, hugs…and even the lack of one. Both sides of all those emotions must be touched, felt and delivered to a center within us that can never become full. just shine with a beauty as it understands itself and grows. Big hugs dear lady, that inner place has touched something very beautiful, the butterfly has awoken to another world. Be gentle, be compassionate…to yourself…and be free in its understanding ❤️🙏🏽

Barbara Frankenreply
November 1, 2022 at 15:42
– In reply to: Mark Lanesbury

Dear Mark, and you give so much to us all here, and are so grateful. Yes I’ve been on the rocket but I prefer to drive my Range Rover!🤣😂 It’s much more gentle to spread the love I’ve discovered along my journey. AND I’ve learned patience these last few years, to enjoy the present moment. Enjoying the company of others, enjoying the simple things and just shining our light with no goal ahead… just more peace, love and joy in different forms. Thankyou Mark for being your loving self and sharing your love… which has helped me touch something so beautiful within and helping me get through this year! Sending you love Mark x

Mark Lanesburyreply
November 1, 2022 at 23:47

My pleasure dear lady, to see love drive in a Range Rover or anything else is a beauty all its own. And I am very glad to hear you find that gentleness within. It takes time but that is its beauty, It wants us to find us and we had spent so long looking ‘out there’ it takes a while to come back within. But when there it shows us something wonderful. Much love to you also Barbara, and enjoy the view from this new place, it has taken great courage, love and compassion of self to find it xo ❤️🙏🏽

November 4, 2022 at 18:17

Oddly enough I do feel the joy. I also feel the regenerative energy of humanity in their learning process. Throughout the chaos I feel peace. It is like the seasons and it depends where you live that Winter there is a bubbling of awakening. Spring is when they are born and everything is new and shiny. The summer is when you are feeling more and more the light that is shining on everyone the truth is exposed. Autumn you have gained the wisdom of discernment and you have truly harvested your gifts you have acquired in every season. Be joyous my friend. 💝💝💝

Barbara Frankenreply
November 5, 2022 at 18:22
– In reply to: thespiritkeeper

I love how you write Joseph, beautiful words to keep us all aiming high. Thankyou and be in joy, in all the seasons❤️ much love x

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