Why Loving Yourself is Essential Now…

Loving yourself, putting yourself first and giving yourself time and attention, to get to know yourself, to know All of yourself; Body, Mind, Spirit & Aspects, goes against everything you and I have been taught and brought up to believe… yet it is the one thing that will open the truth up to you and set you free❤️

As a society we’ve been told to put others first, to fit in, to be busy, to push ourselves to be the best and establish a good place in life. To accept that others will give us a hard time, will judge us and tell us what they think is best for us, for society… because it’s in our best interest!

AND we fell for it all😒. We became lazy and irresponsible and god forbid… if we become assertive and selfish😳.

Today we can sense, as we walk around muzzled, standing 6 feet apart from friends or sitting around a cafe table or at home isolated, just where our submissive behaviour has brought Humanity.

We the people, not believing we are important, worthy and powerful, became victims and prey to a few greedy and evil people who stand behind worldwide governments and organisations with an agenda to control us all.

We have become afraid and forgotten how to stand up for ourselves, never mind move around in freedom, in love, joy and peace as the Sovereign Divine beings we were all truly born as and experience a most joyous life.

When is enough, enough?

Feeling the stir to go within & LOVE yourself…

Do you not feel a stir within you? An urge to follow through on a feeling, of how something just doesn’t feel right? of how there must be more to yourself and life than what you see?

There has been no time quite like now, when it has become essential to follow your own instincts or intuition; the nudge and communication from your Spirit, your Divine self… urging you to love yourself, to pay attention to you and get to know about yourself.

It is such a loving gesture to give yourself time to be with yourself… simply sitting in silence with yourself or in relationship with others. Doing nothing but breathing, observing and feeling all aspects of yourself and your life without judgement. Exploring and discovering how you feel, what is important to you, what brings you joy, what you love to do and how you love to express yourself.

Yes, it is the opposite of what we’ve all been taught, to rely on others to show us the way and give us the answers. However, haven’t we discovered by now, each is unique and has a different story! What is good for one, is not necessarily good for another and surely nobody can know another’s feelings or know what is best for them.

Do you know yourself well? Do you know what makes you smile, jump for joy and gives you twinkles in your eyes? Do you know what your body craves to eat, what it longs to perform as and how it loves to relax?

Of course indulging yourself in nature and sharing acts of kindness with others helps you to open up to your own Divine flow within, but it’s only when you allow yourself to go one step further and explore the true depths of yourself… you will discover in all ease and grace and in each moment, how to bring in and experience your grandest dream of NewEarth.

I promise you, the more you love and know yourself, you will quite magically know your next move, answers to all your questions and you will trust this whole process of Ascension.

The Bigger Picture…

Yes, there is a bigger picture behind what you see in the physical world, behind the lies and manipulation of our dual reality. You are part of a grand and beautiful tapestry of consciousness that is experiencing itself in all its facets, facing the light and the darkness and coming back into sovereign oneness.

Team Dark are playing their role and will not release you from the game unless you see the truth and step out. They will continue to confuse and push everyone, they won’t give up and there is nobody coming or anything to save you either!

It’s up to you! Up to each person to touch that sacredness deep within and embody the love, light and All knowingness that will guide you forward through these exciting transformative times. 

I continue to hold the vision of NewEarth, of Humanity shining their true vibrant colours, and bringing themselves, one heart at a time, into a new multi-dimension to experience first hand the embodiment of the Divine.

I remain grateful to many awakened hearts who continue to follow their passion and mission and are bringing in new potentials to make this transformation happen.

How it’s all going to unfold for the majority, depends on many, but rest assure, if you are aware of the bigger picture, have allowed the Integration and Embodiment of all your yesterdays and your desire and intention is to Embody Your Magnificent Self and live a life of celebration… we’ll no doubt meet each other to celebrate in person❤️ 

Meanwhile, things are happening in our now physical reality to bridge the gap of this transformation from old dual world to NewEarth… remain the observer, hold your grand dream high, keep yourself well and let’s bring as many people with us through this most magical time… just by loving yourself. 

Remember… knowing the truth allows you to stand up and say no more! To demand your Sovereign Human right to be free and live your life as you desire, for the good of all… knowing in each moment what move to make next.

Back in 2016, I wrote 3 detailed posts about… What is Loving Yourself all about, Part I, Part II, Part III. Enjoy❤️

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Writing to Freedomreply
October 6, 2020 at 20:23

Thank you Barbara for being a champion of love, sovereignty, and freedom. The only point I see differently, is the focus on self-love. I find that loving in any direction (self, others, or nature) opens up the flow of divine energy. hugs and blessings.

Barbara Frankenreply
October 6, 2020 at 21:52
– In reply to: Writing to Freedom

Ah Thankyou for kind words Brad, yes I understand you seeing it differently because there are many perceptions about love and yes nature and others help open us up more and more to the divine within, especially when we are not following a duty to serve others.

However, IAM using self love, giving time and attention to ourself, as a means to know oneself, to communicate with the unique and sovereign DivineHuman we are each birthing… outside of nature and others.

We are each sovereign oneness’s in the oneness! Here now to bring in a new experience never done before.

To do this in all ease and grace we must intuit and understand it from ourself, rather than others, nature.

I find it quite difficult to explain as we have entered a quantum world. Are you now more confused? Maybe I can go back and twinge my post a bit❤️ much love coming your way🥰

Sue Dreamwalkerreply
October 6, 2020 at 23:38

Excellently said dear Barbara… We so need to stand in our own Sovereignty now, more than ever.. And learn to respect ourselves our bodies, our health, our well being, and nurture the courage within to say NO… I do not consent to have my liberties taken, my very air to breathe restricted and my voice muzzled and my family unit split apart by distance through fear .. I do not consent to have some untested drug put into my veins.

I envision a world of freedom, a world of love, a world of co-operation, where we serve one another helping one another…. Not one where we fear each other, where fines are imposed and curfews are made to restrict our movements, causing distrust among neighbours, where a government actively encourages neighbour to snitch on another neighbour and where it sends soldiers to doors to doors with testing kits… Where cases are mainly people who have no clue they are ill,
To bring about a more loving world the old world needs to crumble… That world is being exposed right now… By the very nature of fear being brought about.. It allows us to delve deeper within, and when we dive deeper within the peace within ourselves, learning to nurture and love ourselves we then create the outer world of peace…

We are not all seeing that for we are within the time line of 3D, and we are merging out morphing through these chaotic times…
But above all we need to hold love and compassion for those who surrendered their souls long ago..
Many will not be able to comprehend that which comes to light…

But we need to hold all in love and light… during these challenging next few months…. Winter will be challenging.. I see Spring Time more light revealed…

Sending LOVE dear Barbara.. thank you for being you and for shining your light into the world..
we are so blessed to have so many now gathering lights together

Love and Peace my friend <3 <3 <3

Barbara Frankenreply
October 13, 2020 at 09:49
– In reply to: Sue Dreamwalker

Thankyou dear Sue for your loving support, for holding the light and making this time so exciting and necessary! This is the big leap from old to new we have physically been bringing in and will take as many with us as possible! Hearing the big muddle of restrictions now in UK, surely many will begin to question the government minds. I can physically feel the ramp up of light pouring down on Earth now so I know this is helping many more awaken. IAM listening with interest to Charlie Ward who lives in southern Spain with me talking about his intel about what’s happening and why and I resonate with most of it. Take care Sue and enjoy it all❤️

Sue Dreamwalkerreply
October 13, 2020 at 11:55
– In reply to: Barbara Franken

🙂 Isn’t it strange, how we are drawn to the people we are meant to hear…. Charlie Ward and Charlie Freak… lol… I also found during lockdown… Although I agree with them, some of the financial statements of what is to occur in the future, are hard to comprehend a system turnaround like that, even though it sounds wonderful, sometimes it sounds too good to be true.. But I live in hope!. 🙂
And yes Barbara… Not much sense here in UK and I live in one of the now level 2 zones, so no more visiting each others houses… Its just beyond unreal…, and yet so many people not waking… I will send you an email to some good news though.. It appears more in Germany are waking and have a legal team, of Lawyers, Drs, professors, and scientists who have a different view and who have not sold out their souls… Look out for it, later today…
Much love your way also Barbara… Stay Blessed <3 🙏

October 7, 2020 at 01:51

Beautiful post Barbara. I share your vision of a new world, one of peace, unity and transformation. One where the veils have been lifted, where the lies and deception are uncovered and transmuted into love, light and peace. Thank you for sharing your wisdom, your your love. Blessings my friend. xx ✨🙏

Barbara Frankenreply
October 13, 2020 at 09:50
– In reply to: Miriam

Thankyou Miriam for your support and loving words… it’s because there are so many of us now bringing in this time, that its getting exciting and so so necessary to finally leap beyond. Much love to you x Barbara x

October 11, 2020 at 15:45

Barbara, I so agree with you! People have lost who they are and that is why they shuffle around with a muzzle on their face. I’m not sure how long this has to go on before the majority awaken to the truth about not only themselves but about what is going on. I was at a funeral this past Friday and all had masks on. I had mine under my nose and one that is so light that you can see through it. I refuse to put something over my face that inhibits my breathing. At times I had pulled it down exposing my face cuz just the feel of that thing on my face I do NOT like. I looked around in wonder asking WHY are these people putting up with this horror? Fear …. fear …. and more fear and NOT knowing who they are. At the cemetery I was the ONLY one without a mask on. No way will I wear one outside. May MY example jar some around me to think about things. I just keep on doing what I KNOW is right and I pray that sooner rather then late these people will stop letting others take their power from them. LOVED this post!! Thank you so much for shining and not submitting to the evil of this world. Bless you!! xo

Barbara Frankenreply
October 13, 2020 at 09:56
– In reply to: AmyRose🌹

Here in Spain we just have to giggle at how everyone but a bare minimum wears the masks all the time! The Spanish are so obedient! AND IAM afraid when the truth comes out, which it has too… many are going to be shocked! At the same time much more light is pouring down on us… I physically feel it in my body and know it’s not long now for the darkness to be revealed and many who are awakened and ready can leap beyond into a harmonious new earth. Yes an exciting time indeed, time to kick up those high red shoes!💃 Much love AmyRose, Barbara x

October 13, 2020 at 14:58
– In reply to: Barbara Franken

More and more here are wearing masks, Barbara, and I just have to look at them and say, “Really?” WHO just announced yesterday lockdowns need to be lifted. Oh yes the LIGHT is coming forth and WHO knows it and is covering their butts. There is SO much coming forth now it makes my head spin. I do feel sorry for those who really fell for the all the lies because they have one huge shock coming. I’m already kicking up my red shoes. SMILE! Much love to you!! xo

October 19, 2020 at 17:27

Beautiful post and another important message, Barbara. And I feel so much positivity when I look at your images and your lovely smile. Thanks again for inspiring and I’m grateful to meet you, too.
Much love, Lauren 💖💖

Barbara Frankenreply
October 20, 2020 at 08:40
– In reply to: Baydreamer

So wonderful to feel your presence here Lauren, Thankyou for your kind message and here’s to us both writing to inspire others to open up to love❤️ much love x

October 20, 2020 at 00:03

Once again, so powerful and beautifully written. This is so timely for me as I am going through the various phases of putting myself first. It started small, putting aside the guilt I felt for not making society come first. To not feel selfish.
Now I know and realize how much more powerful and helpful I become to others and myself, simply by ensuring my own wellness.
The phases I mentioned it’s like moments I reinvent myself over and over. Layering on more knowledge, more light and love, more of serving and becoming my true authentic self.
Namaste 🙏🏼

Barbara Frankenreply
October 20, 2020 at 08:35
– In reply to: RhapsodyBoheme

Ah lovely kind words that inspire me to write my passion, to continue loving myself first… after so so long! AND just our shining light, our joy, exploring the depths of ourselves/the world where no separation exists… our loving vibration radiates our ‘infecting’ those around us. 💃🏼🌈 Quite exciting times were in❤️

October 21, 2020 at 19:12
– In reply to: Barbara Franken

I agree while heartily. If we can see everything that is happening as opportunities and in a positive light, we find ourselves in times of great manifestation, change and accession for a better world and self. On by one we inspire others by sharing o it light. Thank you for sharing yours. It has an amazing glow. 🙏🏼❤️

Share your love ... thank you x