Guest Blogger/Author Feature… The Magnificent Leigh Gaitskill
Welcome dear Leigh to my NEW Guest Blogger/Author Feature, it is truly my pleasure to shine light on YOU now. IAM honoured to have you amongst my Divine friends here on WordPress, to read your honest and inspiring blog posts at bluegrass notes about your journey; transcending Human struggle and suffering by the simple act of opening your own heart and being love, peace and joy to everyone around.
Leigh lives in Lexington, Kentucky where she dedicates her time with peaceful activism, embracing movement and raising the vibration of ALL consciousness on Earth. Leigh shares more about herself and her life on her personal blog Not Just Sassy on the Inside AND I came across a secret pleasure she has… playing a kids game Wizard101 (that sounds quite complicated for a kid?). Leigh blogs about it and has written a beginners guide on how to play.
Leigh’s feeling on Compassion
Compassion is a word on which I’ve put a lot of attention in the last decade-and-a-half and since the U.S. election is front and center for me. I feel true compassion is unconditional. There aren’t people who deserve compassion and people who don’t; everyone deserves it. And the place where it begins is in you.
I see compassion and love as inextricably intertwined. To have compassion I think you must have a loving heart and if your heart is loving, compassion flows. The prerequisite to both is self-love. If you don’t love yourself, truly and unconditionally, it’s impossible to offer true compassion or love to anyone or anything else.
When you don’t love yourself there are always issues of self-doubt and/or self-loathing and/or self-worth and/or self-respect, etc. lurking somewhere in our consciousness. You may still do kind things for people or succeed much of the time at being a nice person but your actions and choices and behavior can’t help but be impacted by those doubts and issues. Your motivations may not always be as altruistic as you think. Your love will most likely be conditional. You may sometimes be mean or snarky.
I encountered the idea of loving yourself as a key factor from my earliest steps of this spiritual journey back in 1985. It didn’t take long to realize I lacked self-confidence, self-respect and self-worth as well as entertaining deep wells of self-doubt and self-loathing. At the time I figured I’d say some affirmations and do a guided meditation or two and in a couple of months I could check those issues off.
The reality, of course, has been a slow-moving journey of healing, self-discovery and growth that is still in progress. The journey has been up and down and encountered many plateaus. It has included numerous healing modalities for every level of being. While it has led to being far more comfortable in my own skin than at any previous point, I wouldn’t say I’ve achieved complete self-love; I’m more of a work in progress.
I used to be shy, self-conscious, inhibited, wildly uncomfortable with strangers, and touchy and thin-skinned in social encounters. I was not a person with whom others struck up conversations and I was often snarky and defensive in my encounters. As I’ve healed I’ve grown softer and more open and out-going. People start conversations with me all the time and I enjoy light banter with people I meet.
This shift reveals to me how much my state of being impacts other people. I understand the need to love myself first in a far deeper way since I have experienced the change and its ripple effects.
Compassion for All
Since the election and ensuing unease, I’ve put a lot of attention on building lovingkindness and compassion in myself. Over the years I’ve learned it doesn’t make much difference whether you specifically work on self-love or on love as a state of being; both fill your cells with love and change your energy
I began by saying the lovingkindness chant for myself and Trump and America (see post). After a while I shifted to saying that chant for myself and then singing the Gayatri Mantra followed by Om Shanti Shanti. These chants leave me calm yet energized, with my hearting feeling huge and vibrant and nothing can shake me from my sense of peace and love for all. That’s the space where I feel compassion dwells.
Some combo of the times and the practices have been inspiring me with a passion to speak up and write about Spiritual Activism. I wrote a series of posts about it and am planning to expand them into a handbook for peaceful revolution. It feels like my purpose and my passion … AND magnificence.
I have a BA in history, an MA in sociology from Northwestern University and a JD from the University of Washington School of Law.
My spiritual journey began in 1985 when a transpersonal psychologist introduced me to meditation, metaphysics and the principle that you create your own reality with your thoughts. I went on to Nine Gates Mystery School, the Fischer-Hoffman Process, sat with a Vipassana group, studied with a Hopi elder and studied with several Huna teachers.
I began studying yoga in 1986 with Bill Hunt, now the owner/director of Oak Park Yoga Center in Oak Park, Illinois. In 1988 I earned a teaching certificate from the teacher training program at the Temple of Kriya Yoga in Chicago. I developed classes using movements that trigger deep muscle releases and combining that with stretches and have created a manual that’s available on Kindle, called Restoring Fluidity and Freedom of Movement.
Relating Heart to Heart by Leigh Gaitskill
I published this book back in 2013, to share will others important tips, from many spiritual paths, on how to deepen relationships and feel connected.
It is available from Amazon as an E-Book.
A Book Review…
‘Loved this book for its simple, clear, loving and responsible approach to developing our communication skills for a fulfilling life and happy relationships. It was very helpful for me to explore how simple admonitions and beliefs we inherit from parents, teachers and adults in early childhood creates reactive listening and conditioned speech patterns as adults. The very first screen of buddha’s right speech: ‘Is it true?’ often stops me in the middle of everyday conversation with friends and family, when I am diligent in my practice. Not taking things personally, allowing others to be who they are, practicing golden rules are all good reminders for opening our hearts and relating heart to heart.’ Isis07
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Join Leigh’s Collective Prayer Sunday
Leigh knows the exponential power of two or more gathered together with the same intent and asks you to join her each Sunday in her prayers for peace. For more info please read her blog post or/and follow her Facebook Page Collective Prayer Sunday
Thank you so much Leigh for standing out in the world and shinning your bright light for others to open their hearts too.
Do you want to be part of my Guest Blogger Feature… Your Magnificent Self
Every other Monday throughout this year, I will host a Guest Blogger/Author Feature and put YOU, my magnificent fellow Blogger/Author in the LIGHT. Not only this, I will feature your book/link to purchase in my website library and include your writing on Compassion in a FREE E-Book at the end of this year.
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Join the discussion and tell us your opinion.
Thanks for finding and sharing Leigh’s insights Barbara. Leigh, I enjoyed your honest sharing of your journey toward self love. Thanks for showing the way. blessings, Brad
Isn’t it great sharing my friends insights… I feel quite excited about it all… much love, barbara
Yes, it’s wonderful to share, learn and help each other. hugs,
Thanks Brad– I really appreciate that!
My pleasure Leigh. 🙂
You’re most welcome Leigh.
Thank you for sharing Leigh’s story here Barbara. Leigh is a great person who is doing some powerful work that has impacted me greatly. Leigh, I am so glad to call you friend and am supporting you all the way. I aim to be more compassionate, especially with those who I dislike or have strong disagreements with.
Barbara, your projects are wonderfully inventive and encourage love and raising our vibrations. I am so glad also to call you friend.
blessings and peace,
Isn’t leigh a wonderful reflection of her Divine friends… all unique in our own ways. You know this guest feature just has to include yourself… no pressure, just pure alignment with OUR vision of Human Evolution x much love barbara x
Thanks Barbara for the encouragement. I probably will write something for you on compassion, but not right now. Feeling a bit overwhelmed. But it will pass 🙂
I’m taking features for June now can I put you down for 12 june?
Is there something special about that date or is that the next available? June should be okay, Source willing. Feeling quite ill today so not able to really focus.
It’s my sons birthday… and the next slot if you like… x be well, much love x
Thanks Linda — I feel the same. And I join Barbara in encouraging you to add a post to her Compassion series.
You are welcome! I will most likely add a post when the time is right…
I love this beautiful piece. So honest and true and where it all begins with self love. Thanks so much Leigh, another boom for me to look out for. So inspiring.
Thank you — I appreciate your kind thoughts!
Isn’t Leigh just wonderful, you can feel the presence of her peacefulness… much love barbara x
Lovely and thought-provoking ideas on compassion. Thank-you for sharing them with us. Compassion seems to be an endless subject that we, too often, ignore just thinking “Oh, I’m compassionate,” and never giving much thought to what it is and why we think we are compassionate. So nice that Barbara is providing an opportunity for all of us to give our thoughts here regarding this important subject. Hugs to you both. pat
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